Don't play with fire

To whoever it is who keeps looking at my Minyak Dagu post (every public holiday without fail )

If you're having trouble with your hubby or boyfriend, please don't resort to this method. If he doesn't love you anymore or has found someone new , learn to live and let go. Let it be. 

You cannot cage someone this way. It's not fair to you or to him. In fact it's just wrong of you to entertain such thoughts. 

Thought of the side effects ? What about the consequences? 

 Don't care ? What if someone did this to you instead ?

I'm writing this open letter to you because frankly I'm worried about you. You just need to learn how to exude more confidence by first learning to love yourself. If you can't get him to love you back no more, always believe in second chances. If he wants out , there's a whole life out there ok ? 

Life is too short . Love cannot be bottled . Happiness cannot be put on a shelf. Sometimes marriage is not longlasting. It takes two to tango.  And in your case, maybe the music just died. Think it over before you take this path of no return . 

Minyak Dagu and our husbands

I have yet to find a good lady masseur in Penang up till now. Most of them are not skilled, but I do enjoy a little exchange of womanly banter as they loosen up a knot in my hands and shoulder.

Today, the conversation went like this.....

the threat of

loosing your husband to a GRO, reflexologist or masseur who smears minyak dagu or corpse oil on him.

Why ? 

Apparently , some of these women, from a certain ethnic background, from a rather large country known for breaking up countless marriages here, have no qualms about using Thai minyak dagu ( and no, they're not Thais ) with no worries about the grave repercussions.